Self-improvement can be overwhelming. If you spend an hour reading posts on a blog like this one or start watching Philosopher’s Notes TV on a regular basis, you’ll quickly flood your brain with a plethora of new behaviors to try. Plus, you probably already have a long list of things you’d like to improve about yourself or your lifestyle: behaviors you’d like to quit or do less often, behaviors you’d… Read More »How to Get Started With Self-Improvement
If you struggle with self-confidence, you’ve probably already heard all the bad advice out there. You’re told to pump yourself up with can-do platitudes and just “fake it till you make it.” But this just creates a façade of false confidence that you can temporarily hide behind. What you really want is true confidence. And as I’ve explained before, true confidence comes from self-efficacy. In that article, I focused on… Read More »Why Better Sleep Makes You More Confident
Damn! Why is this so hard? I should be good at this already! We’ve all been there. This thought might arise when we’re playing a game or a sport. It could pop up during a miscommunication with your partner or child. It’s probably most common when we’re learning something, whether for work or school or just for a hobby. Many of us walk around with mistaken assumptions about how life… Read More »The Power of the Practicing Mindset
“Flow is an optimal state of consciousness, a peak state where we both feel our best and perform our best. It is a transformation available to anyone, anywhere, provided that certain initial conditions are met. Everyone from assembly-line workers in Detroit to jazz musicians in Algeria to software designers in Mumbai rely on flow to drive performance and accelerate innovation. And it’s quite a driver. Researchers now believe flow sits… Read More »How to Get Into Flow at Work and at Home