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How Your Self-Image Improves

James Clear (author of Atomic Habits) recently wrote something that I disagreed with: “You will rarely outperform your self-image.”1 Actually, this is precisely how you improve your self-image, but you can only outperform it incrementally, improving your self-image bit by bit via self-perception. Your self-image is partly the result of your thoughts – what you think you’re capable of. But a larger factor is your actions – what you’ve seen… Read More »How Your Self-Image Improves

Impatience is Irrational

Note: Like many of my posts, this is basically a letter to myself. “Wait like you’re early.” –Shane Parrish1 Patience has always been a struggle for me, but reading the phrase, “wait like you’re early,” unlocked something in my brain. I repeat it to myself when I’m stuck in traffic or at a red light, and it helps. Compare how you would act and how you would feel in the… Read More »Impatience is Irrational

Why Brain Health is so Important

I’m obsessed with brain health. Why? Because your brain is your most important asset. And it’s easy to forget that your brain is a physical organ, like your heart or liver. As such, it is impacted by your physical health. But it’s more than just that. Your brain is by far the most complex organ in your body. So of course it’s highly sensitive to changing inputs. It’s the most… Read More »Why Brain Health is so Important

If You’re Going Through Hell, Keep Going

There’s a common saying, often attributed to Winston Churchill,* that goes like this: “If you’re going through Hell, keep going.” Let’s unpack that piece of wisdom because there’s more to it than you might think. Imagine a person walking through a desert, trying to get from one side to the other. It’s painfully hot. They’re thirsty and exhausted. Stopping won’t do them any good. The only way to get out… Read More »If You’re Going Through Hell, Keep Going

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