Francis Barlow’s illustration of “The Boy Who Cried Wolf.” Public Domain. “The Boy Who Cried Wolf” is traditionally told as a story where the moral is “Don’t lie because people won’t believe you when it matters.” And while that’s not a bad lesson, it’s not very profound. A more useful moral to learn from the story is “All signals should be meaningful.” The boy cries wolf when there isn’t a… Read More »The True Meaning of “The Boy Who Cried Wolf”
Over the last year, I did 2,364 push-ups. Before you feel impressed, that actually isn’t a very big number. Just ten push-ups per day for a year is 3,650. But 2,364 is a lot of push-ups considering that prior to starting this habit, I had difficulty doing any. Let’s go back in time to July 1st, 2021… Rising From the Ashes of Injury Eight years ago, I had foot surgery… Read More »Can You Do Push-ups Every Day?
“I hope I’ll make some progress on that project this week.” “Hopefully, I’ll be able to get myself to study.” “I hope I can exercise in the morning.” These are phrases I sometimes hear from coaching clients and students. And while I understand the sentiment behind these expressions of hope, I take issue with the mindset they reveal. It’s always within your power to do the thing. You have to… Read More »The Trouble With “Hope”
When is the best time to start a new habit? Excellent question. And since there are two different meanings to this question, there are two answers. Let’s explore. 1. On what day (or time of year) should I start a new habit? The answer to that question is simple: Now. Don’t wait until summer or your birthday or the new year. Don’t wait until Monday. Don’t wait until tomorrow. Start… Read More »The Best Time To Start A New Habit