Lately, I’ve been really busy. My work is in its busiest season. We’ve been house hunting. Friends and family keep inviting us to events we can’t say “no” to. I’m piecing together plans for a complicated vacation next year. And every week, there are a dozen urgent but unexpected tasks to take care of. I also haven’t been writing much, finding it hard to focus enough to do deep work.… Read More »What Stillness Brings
“The meaning you give work determines its difficulty. A coder working on a passion project works 12 hours straight and calls it energizing. That same programmer, doing maintenance on legacy code they consider meaningless, feels exhausted after 2 hours. Your relationship with the work shapes its weight more than the work itself.” –Shane Parrish1 In both of the cases above, the coder was working for money. But in the first… Read More »How to Be Energized by Your Work
“The hardest truth about happiness is that it’s a choice.” –Shane Parrish1 You can focus on what you don’t like about a situation, or you can choose to pay attention to the aspects that you do like. You can long for what you don’t have or be glad for what you do. You can resist what you’re experiencing or accept it with grace. You can focus on scarcity and feel… Read More »Happiness is a Choice
Take a moment to remember the last time you cooked in an unfamiliar kitchen. Maybe it was at a friend’s house; maybe it was an Airbnb. Remember the feeling of not being sure where things are, the slightly frustrating inefficiency of working in that kitchen? Compare that to how it feels to cook in your own kitchen, where everything is exactly where you expect it to be. At home, you… Read More »Using Mise En Place for Home, Work, and Life